While we are invisible and everywhere, some bereaved people have shared their stories for those dark hours when no one is there to help or hold you.
These resources are available for you on your own time, at your own pace, on your own couch.
You are not alone
You Were Bigger Than the Whole Sky
You Were Bigger Than the Whole Sky By Nora Biette-Timons In “You’re On Your Own, Kid,” a ballad...
Read MoreWe lost you
It has been over five years since we lost you. When we found out we were having twins, we were so excited, overwhelmed and scared. From one of the very first ultrasounds, I was concerned that you were measuring smaller.
Read MoreProtecting Students Abroad
Two grieving mothers seek efforts to bring transparency, safety to college abroad programs Ros Thackurdeen remembers the hype as she sat through a college study abroad session with her youngest son Ravi at Swarthmore University.
Read MoreGrief, it doesn’t change in size…
Your life is a box, and this grief is a box inside that box, and it’s occupying a large portion of it. And as life continues, the bigger box gets bigger and that grief, it doesn’t change in size. It’s still there, but there’s just more room in your life, other aspects of it.
Read MoreYou can’t stay in the dark place
In 1987, when I was 20, I was in a bad car accident. My 3-year-old daughter, who was with me, was shaken up and had two black eyes, but otherwise seemed all right. Someone called my parents and my mom took me to the hospital. I was 38 weeks pregnant.
Read MoreFor Some Bereaved Parents, Grief is Compounded by Identity Theft
Matt and Roya Pilcher were among the millions of Americans who slogged dutifully through the process of filing their taxes in 2011. But that year they joined countless other bereaved parents in experiencing pain far beyond the inconvenience of paperwork.
Read MoreIt’s okay…
Don’t ever allow what other people say or think about your pain to keep you from allowing yourself...
Read MoreImmediately thrown into a state of shock
“Those early days were just a fog of confusion, uncertainty, a little bit of anger and just trying...
Read MoreAlways that hope…
“That’s when we knew. He didn’t have to say anything. That was how the news was...
Read MoreIt Changes You
I’m not the same as I used to be. I don’t think I ever will be. If that doesn’t change how I am with Chris I mean I think it has to change how I am with Chris because I’m different.”
— Gina
What’s Your HR Benefit? Deana’s Was One Week Leave Per Child
There are times in which an entire life can change in a moment. It may come in the form of an anxiously anticipated milestone: graduation, marriage, or the birth of a child. But there are darker, unimaginable tragedies we often refuse to consider – tucking them into the deepest recesses of our minds because they are too painful, too life-altering. For Deana Martin that moment came on a busy Friday afternoon.
Read MoreNo one understands…
It’s okay no one understands why I was so upset this morning. Dad and Johnny don’t get it – perhaps the male mind can compartmentalize easily – they accept that you’re gone. Today I took stuff out of your room, the way I had set your things up, because dad is going to paint the room.
Read MoreIs Your Child Safe? Betsy Wants To Know
Serving her country was the first thing Betsy Cummings would do following graduation. Leaving her small hometown of Culpeper, Virginia, she was off to see the world, meet her future husband, and eventually welcome her young son, Dylan, into the world.
Read MoreEven the Forgotten Lose Children
Countless experiences shape the trajectory of a human life, but for Maryam Henderson-Uloho the convergence of two specific and devastating events ultimately changed her course: a 25-year prison sentence and the death of her son, Augustine.
Read MoreDon’t Lean Into The Brokeness
Don’t Lean Into The Brokeness Nearly three years ago the nation’s attention was gripped by the shooting death of Michael Brown, a young black man who was shot by
Read MoreA Legacy of Protecting Others
A Legacy of Protecting Others
Read MoreThis is not going to be a 24-hour day…
“I get up and I’m like, ‘Today I’m going to do this.’ Momo couldn’t stay here for me, but I’m doing my best to walk it out in a way that maybe a young person that I talk to or they see me smiling even if I’m crying and just keep going and maybe it’ll make a difference.
Read MoreTwo dads, one mission: Better bereavement leave
Kelly Farley and Barry Kluger are the dads behind the Parental Bereavement Act. Evermore is dedicating this Father’s Day week to bereaved dads who will always be fathers. Kelly Farley and Barry Kluger met because of a horrible coincidence:
Read MoreWhat’s Your HR Benefit? Deana’s Was One Week Leave Per Child
There are times in which an entire life can change in a moment. It may come in the form of an anxiously anticipated milestone: graduation, marriage, or the birth of a child.
Read MoreWhy would you allow this?
“I never in a million years imagined myself telling my baby to let go. This is the baby that I fought to keep in so she wouldn’t be born early, but…” — Kimmie
Read MoreYou lose your dreams…
You lose your dreams…
Read More“He Wants Me to Salute Him Back”
Bryan Burgess was killed in action during a 2011 deployment to Afghanistan just 16 days before he...
Read MoreHe just kept holding my hand…
“He was one of the initial responders and he just kept holding my hand. He was like, ‘Miss...
Read MoreThe pain will always be, always be there…
“The pain will always be, always be there. It will never go away. However, as each day passes, you will learn how to, not deal with it, but it’ll become a little easier to handle.
Read MoreOnce More We Saw Stars
Evermore is dedicating this Father’s Day week to bereaved dads who will always be fathers. In a new memoir, Once More We Saw Stars, father Jayson Greene vividly recounts the raw feelings after his two-year-old daughter Greta died and his continuous journey through grief.
Read MoreSon’s death launches father’s re-education into the dangers of teen driving
Evermore is dedicating this Father’s Day week to bereaved dads who will always be fathers. After his son Reid died in a car crash, Tim Hollister helped transform Connecticut’s teen driving laws.
Read MoreDr. Mom Gives You A Life to Live
Nancy is the unflappable mother of ten and leads her large family with grace, instilling a deep love for life in all her children. As a psychotherapist who specializes in addiction and trauma, she has a soft spot for people and falls in love easily, especially with children. Kevin was no different.
Read MoreI never asked…
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Read MoreWhen a child dies… what happens next makes all the difference.
Mulheron left her career to immerse herself in the science surrounding the fallout of losing a child at any age or cause. She then started Evermore — a nonprofit to change the national response when a child dies.
Read MoreWhen I saw her…
“Why is a chaplain here?’ She just rolled off the bed. Then when I saw the first doctor before I...
Read MoreThat one minute…
“It’s happened four times for me now. It’s been a long time, when I woke up in that morning going, “I have to get the kids up from school.”
Read MoreHold My Hand
He was one of the initial responders and he just kept holding my hand. He was like, ‘Miss Hawkins, I’ve been in Iraq. Your son, he’s going to be okay.’”
Read MoreChoosing to try
Grief teaches a mother lessons she never wanted to learn My husband Brad came home to tell me what...
Read MoreWelcome to Holland
A Reflection by Catherine T I thought I was in a dream, a nightmare, would I ever wake up? My plane never landed in Italy, but crashed on the runway in Holland. She was sick, there were no answers, in the end: not enough oxygen to her brain.
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